DEAR ABBY: Iâ€™ve been dating â€œKarlâ€ for 5 years. We reside individually. I was thinking our relationship had been pretty solid until a health scare that is recent. A couple of days ago, I had a severe hypersensitive reaction to one thing we consumed at supper. Once I recognized just how severe it had been, we instantly hurried towards the ER. (we had taken an antihistamine rather than calling the paramedics.)
We quickly messaged Karl that I became having a emergency that is medical. A doctor stated these reactions could be fatal and certainly will be increasingly even worse after every response. Karl had been working and said he couldnâ€™t leave work. He didnâ€™t make certain i arrived home safely and sometimes even arrive at the home later on to confirm me personally. Him for help picking up the many meds I needed the next morning, he again said he was working when I asked. I became furious, and achieved it myself although I shouldnâ€™t are driving. I am aware Iâ€™m emotional due to meds and injury. Am we overreacting? — DISAPPOINTED IN OREGON
DEAR DISAPPOINTED: You Aren’t overreacting. You had been lucky to own managed to make it into the er since you may have died on your way. Karlâ€™s a reaction to your crisis had been extremely callous.